Divorce Attorney Shares Red Flags She Sees All The Time That Mean Your Relationship Isn’t Going To Last Forever

Ali Brady, a divorce attorney, was recently asked by her TikTok audience for the top red flags she sees in couples getting divorced. Thankfully, she delivered, highlighting what might determine a marriage not to last forever. “The number one tip I live by and tell my children is that they are just not that into you,” Ali, known as alilegal, replied. 

Ali Brady was asked for the top red flags she sees in couples getting divorced.

She added: “If you are unsure how someone feels about you, then they are just not that into you, and you need to cut ties and move on. The second red flag is if you are living together and building a life together but not married and that other person is acquiring assets and not putting your name on those assets, that’s a red flag.”

She delivered, highlighting the things that can determine a marriage not to last forever.

“The number one tip I live by and tell my children is that they are just not that into you.”

She urged if unsure how someone feels about you, then they are just not that into you, and you need to cut ties.

“The third red flag is to listen to the person you are with and how they talk about their former relationships.” Ali further explained it’s essential if a couple is together for a significant period and warned if they can’t say anything positive about those past affairs, they are likely to develop that same point of view. She stated that asking for a prenup before a wedding isn’t mainly a red flag but to watch out for their attitude when asking for one as this could be a red flag.

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The second red flag is if you are living together with a spouse and they aren’t putting your name on assets.

The third red flag is to listen to the person you are with and how they talk about their former relationships.

Ali also expressed that if they aren’t willing to negotiate and take care of your feelings or listen to your concerns while going through the process of getting a prenup, then it could be another red flag to observe. She recommended thinking about whether you would consider giving them equal shared custody of your children in the event of divorce. If the response is NO, it could signify that you don’t trust them with your children and should think twice about marrying the person. 

Ali also said asking for a prenup before a wedding isn’t mainly a red flag but to watch out for their attitude.

She added if you don’t trust them with your children, you should think twice about marrying the person. 

However, Ali admitted getting divorced does happen and suggested if someone is on their 4th marriage, then there’s probably wrong on the inside. Many people couldn’t help but agree with Ali and thanked her for her warnings in the comments. One person wrote: “YES! Especially the acquiring assets/name part. I learned that the hard way.” Another said: “My ex called all of his Exs crazy. That should have sent off alarm bells for me.” 

Finally, Ali admitted getting divorced does happen but if someone is on their 4th, there’s something on the inside.